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Overcome Chronic Unhappiness and Relationship Challenges and Create the Relationship You Desire! Get specialized support from a Certified Relationship Coach.

Kimi Avary
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You've lost days, weeks, months or years because of relationship problems.

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    You feel chronically unhappy and hide your true feelings to function daily.

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    You lack energy for creativity or enjoyment, overwhelmed by relationship challenges.

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    You cycle through trying, failing, and swearing off relationships.

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    You feel stuck and doubtful about ever finding love and happiness.

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    Self-help books don't help; you want personal and practical skills for better relationships.

  • If you've experienced ANY of these it's not your fault.

    It's a safe bet that you haven't been taught how to create a great relationship. 

    Imagine experiencing Lasting Love and Unshakable Happiness. A life where you...

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    Have the energy to focus on what you want to create in the world!

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    Are your best self joyfully and feel love every single day! 

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    Release comparisons and radiate your true beauty effortlessly.

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    Feel happy for no reason and enjoy your life in each moment.

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    Embrace a life filled with joy and purpose, where you are free to create, love, and live fully.

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    Healed All My Relationships!

    “What I love about the tips and techniques you teach is that we can apply them in our daily life. Reading books, magazines or some of the workshops out there, tell you more about what you want to hear not what you can apply. Working with you changed my approach, my opinion about men, it helped me with my relationship with my dad, my relationships with colleagues, and I am so much better at sorting during dating. Working with you was one of the best investments I did in my life.”

    ~ C.S. Lebanon, VIP Coaching Client

    New Beginnings!

    “I can honestly say that you have changed my complete outlook on life through teaching me empathy. I’ve learnt to understand other peoples point of view something that was completely foreign to me before. Your sessions have helped heal our relationship and now my partner and I are in the process of a new beginning. After 20 years we now see that there is another enlightened path for us to take in life. We truly feel are lives are changed. Kind regards”

    ~ R. Stevens, England, VIP Coaching Client

    Win/Win Deals!

    “I’ve been with Charlie for 12 years and I really want to get married. He’d been married twice before and was unsure about getting married again. Through coaching with Kimi, she helped us understand each other, as a man and a woman, (all that instinctual stuff), and work out deals that we were both really happy with. We’re on the same page now, and we’ve set the date! I feel so blessed to have been working with Kimi! Thank you sooooo much!”

    ~ C. P. Redwood City, California, VIP Coaching Client

    If you've felt any of these things, let's talk.

    I'm here to help you heal your past and live your life in love now. book Your Complimentary 30-minute Consultation to get to know each other and create a transformative plan for you.

    You deserve to be love and be loved!

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    What results can you expect from my support? You'll...

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    Rewire Your Brain for Love: Transform your mindset to attract and receive love in your life, ensuring you’re open to new possibilities and healthy relationships.

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    Clear the Past, Live in the Present: Heal from past heartbreak, grief, and trauma, releasing attachments and disappointments to free up energy for manifesting the future you truly desire.

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    Manage Your Focus and Energy: Utilize powerful tools to direct your focus and energy effectively, enabling you to create the love and life you want while spending your time feeling joyful rather than distressed.

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    Understand Your Needs: Distinguish between your requirements, needs, and wants, and learn how to clearly ask for what you need in a way that works, fostering better communication and fulfillment in your relationships.

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    Navigate Masculine and Feminine Dynamics: Learn to balance and navigate the masculine and feminine dynamics within yourself and your relationships, enhancing harmony and understanding with your partner.

  • Hello, I'm Kimi Avary. I am a coach specializing in helping Women Create the Relationship They Desire.

    Today, I am happily married to a great guy named Art who I've been with since 2006, but it wasn't always this way.

    I've been studying love and relationships my whole life but couldn't figure out how to make a relationship work long term.

    I have a Masters in Counseling Psychology, and a Bachelors in Family Studies and Human Development.

    I'm an NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) Master Practitioner and Trainer, which means that I help people to use their brains better to get better results in their lives.

    Even though I have those skills, I still experienced years of lost love and heartbreak.

    I watched two men I was deeply in love with marry other women because I was their buddy, not the woman they wanted to marry.

    I had no idea why.

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    I felt angry, confused, and hopeless. I wondered what was wrong with me?!?!?

    Have you ever wondered that?

    Then, when I was 36, I learned that there was something empowering that turned things around.

    I learned that the the masculine and feminine are so different that we'd be better off if we ACTUALLY spoke different languages because then we wouldn't think we were communicating.

    This made it possible to meet and marry Art in 2010.

    How did I do it?

    I learned how to navigate the dance of the masculine and feminine energies within myself and within my relationship.

    I learned how to be curious instead of furious.

    I learned how to ask for what I need, in a way that works, so that I feel loved and nurtured in ways I never felt before.

    Now, instead of worrying about relationship problems, my energy is free to do what I love: helping my clients learn how to navigate their relationships so they can Live Their Lives in Love. 

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