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Create the Relationship You Desire! Get specialized support from a Certified Relationship Coach.

Kimi Avary
Distressed woman wondering why her relationships don't work

You've lost days, weeks, months or years because of relationship problems.

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    You feel chronically unhappy.

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    You feel emotional pain and despair.

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    You put a mask on in order to function in your day to day life?

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    Do you lack the energy to be creative and do things that you enjoy?

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    You feel like you SHOULD ALREADY know by now how to make a relationship work.

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    You fluctuate between trying to love again, failing again, and swearing off relationships?

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    You keep finding the right person who turns into the wrong one. 

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    You try to accept a miserable situation by accepting that you may never experience the love and happiness you’ve hoped for.

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    You don't know what to do to make your relationship experience better.

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    You are hoping your situation changes, but have no idea what to do.

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    You're tired of losing precious time and are ready to learn the skills for successfully navigating relationships. 

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    You've read self help books, but they haven't helped because you need support to put what you've learned into ACTION! 

  • If you've experienced ANY of these it's not your fault.

    It's a safe bet that you haven't been taught how to create a great relationship. 

    Imagine experiencing Lasting Love and Unshakable Happiness. A life where you...

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    Have the energy to focus on what you want to create in the world!

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    Are your best self joyfully! 

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    Feel love every single day! 

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    Release comparisons and radiate your true beauty effortlessly.

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    Feel happy for no reason!

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    Enjoy your life in each moment!

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    REAL RESULTS FROM REAL PEOPLE 

    Healed All My Relationships!

    “What I love about the tips and techniques you teach is that we can apply them in our daily life. Reading books, magazines or some of the workshops out there, tell you more about what you want to hear not what you can apply. Working with you changed my approach, my opinion about men, it helped me with my relationship with my dad, my relationships with colleagues, and I am so much better at sorting during dating. Working with you was one of the best investments I did in my life.”

    ~ C.S. Lebanon, VIP Coaching Client

    New Beginnings!

    “I can honestly say that you have changed my complete outlook on life through teaching me empathy. I’ve learnt to understand other peoples point of view something that was completely foreign to me before. Your sessions have helped heal our relationship and now my partner and I are in the process of a new beginning. After 20 years we now see that there is another enlightened path for us to take in life. We truly feel are lives are changed. Kind regards”

    ~ R. Stevens, England, VIP Coaching Client

    Win/Win Deals!

    “I’ve been with Charlie for 12 years and I really want to get married. He’d been married twice before and was unsure about getting married again. Through coaching with Kimi, she helped us understand each other, as a man and a woman, (all that instinctual stuff), and work out deals that we were both really happy with. We’re on the same page now, and we’ve set the date! I feel so blessed to have been working with Kimi! Thank you sooooo much!”

    ~ C. P. Redwood City, California, VIP Coaching Client

    If you've felt any of these things, let's talk.

    I'm here to help you heal your past so you can create from the present and start Living Your Life in Love NOW! I offer a Complimentary 30 minute Consultation to get to know each other can create a plan for you that will transform your experience. 

    You deserve to be love and be loved!

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    What results can you expect from my support? You'll...

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    Open your heart to receiving love. Chronic relationship upset will be a thing of the past. 

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    Spend your time feeling joyful, instead of in anguish over relationship upsets. 

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    Learn powerful tools to manage your energy and focus, so you can create what you desire.  

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    Release past attachments and disappointments that keep you stuck, so you have energy to manifest the love and life you desire. 

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    Learn how to navigate the masculine and feminine dynamic within yourself and in your relationship.

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    Clear the past so you can live in the present so you can manifest the future you truly desire. 

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    Heal past heartbreak, grief and trauma.

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    Distinguish between your Requirements, Needs and Wants. 

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    Learn how to avoid the attraction trap.

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    Learn to manage your focus and energy. 

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    Get clear about what you need and Learn how to ask for it in a way that works!

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    Rewire your brain so you can receive love in your life. 

  • Hello, I'm Kimi Avary. I a coach specializing in helping Women Create the Relationship They Desire.

    Today, I am happily married to a great guy named Art who I've been with since 2006, but it wasn't always this way.

    I've been studying love and relationships my whole life but couldn't figure out how to make a relationship work long term.

    I have a Masters in Counseling Psychology and a Bachelors in Family Studies and Human Development.

    I'm an NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) Master Practitioner and Trainer, which means that I help people to use their brains better to get better results in their lives.

    Even though I have those skills, I still experienced years of lost love and heartbreak.

    I watched two men I was deeply in love with marry other women because I was their buddy, not the woman they wanted to marry.

    I had no idea why.

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    I felt angry, confused, and hopeless. I wondered what was wrong with me?!?!?

    Have you ever wondered that?

    Then, when I was 36, I learned that there was something empowering that turned things around.

    I learned that the the masculine and feminine are so different that we'd be better off if we ACTUALLY spoke different languages because then we wouldn't think we were communicating.

    This made it possible to meet and marry Art in 2010.

    How did I do it?

    I learned how to navigate the dance of the masculine and feminine energies within myself and within my relationship.

    I learned how to be curious instead of furious.

    I learned how to ask for what I need, in a way that works, so that I feel loved and nurtured in ways I never felt before.

    Now, instead of worrying about relationship problems, my energy is free to do what I love: helping my clients learn how to navigate their relationships so they can Live Their Lives in Love.