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Create the Relationship YOU are Excited to Come Home to! 

You find yourself wondering if you should leave your relationship EVERY SINGLE DAY even though you still love them. 

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    You find yourself crying over the sink in the morning after a fight the night before. 

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    You've had to redo your makeup after fight so you can try to go on with your day.

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    You are frustrated with yourself for not being able to get along with your partner.

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    You spend most of your time trying to figure out how to fix your partner.

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    You wonder why you keep choosing the "wrong person".

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    You find yourself screaming at your partner, breaking dishes and don't know why you're overreacting. 

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    You feel stuck and doubtful about ever finding love and happiness.

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    Self-help books don't help; you want personal and practical skills for better relationships.

  • If you've experienced ANY of these it's not your fault.

    It's a safe bet that you haven't been taught how to create a great relationship. 

    Imagine waking up and rolling over to cuddle your partner unworried about the fight that you had last night. Imagine...

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    ACTUALLY understanding your partner and feeling understood so you can have important and difficult conversations without breaking your relationship.

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    Feeling safe, secure and wrapped in a cozy blanket because you trust yourself and your partner fully. 

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    Being able to comfortably walk into a room without comparing yourself to every other woman there, because you know that your partner only wants to go home with you. 

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    Having the energy to pick up your favorite hobby again! Painting, pottery, going for runs etc.

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    Feeling so good in your body because you have the energy to do the things you love like yoga, gardening, or going to the beach.

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    Feeling able to create, love, live, and express yourself fully because you have reconnected to your joy and purpose! 

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    If you've felt any of these things, let's talk.

    I'm here to help you heal your past and live your life in love now. book Your Complimentary 30-minute Consultation to get to know each other and create a transformative plan for you.

    You deserve to be love and be loved!

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    What results can you expect from my support? You'll...

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    Fix your "people picker" so you can enjoy healthy relationships.

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    Heal from past heartbreak and negative attachments so you can open your heart and love fully!

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    Release past traumas and the negative feelings so you feel safe to love deeply. 

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    Learn to balance the masculine and feminine energies so that you can have peace at home. 

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    Learn how to fight better so you aren't waking up in tears every morning. 

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    Learn how to ask for what you need in a way that ACTUALLY works.

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    Learn how to manage your energy so you can be the brightest energy and be the director in your world. 

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    Release the past traumas and upsets so you can be fully present and live your life in love now. 

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    Develop methods of communication that will support you in getting what you want. 

  • REAL RESULTS FROM REAL PEOPLE 

    New Beginnings! 

    “I can honestly say that you have changed my complete outlook on life through teaching me empathy. I’ve learnt to understand other peoples point of view something that was completely foreign to me before. Your sessions have helped heal our relationship and now my partner and I are in the process of a new beginning. After 20 years we now see that there is another enlightened path for us to take in life. We truly feel are lives are changed. Kind regards”

    ~ R. Stevens, England, VIP Coaching Client

    Healed My All My Relationships! 

    “What I love about the tips and techniques you teach is that we can apply them in our daily life. Reading books, magazines or some of the workshops out there, tell you more about what you want to hear not what you can apply. Working with you changed my approach, my opinion about men, it helped me with my relationship with my dad, my relationships with colleagues, and I am so much better at sorting during dating. Working with you was one of the best investments I did in my life.”

    ~ C.S. Lebanon, VIP Coaching Client

    Win/Win Deals!

    “I’ve been with Charlie for 12 years and I really want to get married. He’d been married twice before and was unsure about getting married again. Through coaching with Kimi, she helped us understand each other, as a man and a woman, (all that instinctual stuff), and work out deals that we were both really happy with. We’re on the same page now, and we’ve set the date! I feel so blessed to have been working with Kimi! Thank you sooooo much!”

    ~ C. P. Redwood City, California, VIP Coaching Client

    Hello, I'm Kimi Avary. I am a coach specializing in helping Women Create the Relationship They Desire.

    Today, I am happily married to a great guy named Art who I've been with since 2006, but it wasn't always this way.

    I've been studying love and relationships my whole life but couldn't figure out how to make a relationship work long term.

    I have a Masters in Counseling Psychology, and a Bachelors in Family Studies and Human Development.

    I'm an NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) Master Practitioner and Trainer, which means that I help people to use their brains better to get better results in their lives.

    Even though I have those skills, I still experienced years of lost love and heartbreak.

    I watched two men I was deeply in love with marry other women because I was their buddy, not the woman they wanted to marry.

    I had no idea why.

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    I felt angry, confused, and hopeless. I wondered what was wrong with me?!?!?

    Have you ever wondered that?

    Then, when I was 36, I learned that there was something empowering that turned things around.

    I learned that the the masculine and feminine are so different that we'd be better off if we ACTUALLY spoke different languages because then we wouldn't think we were communicating.

    This made it possible to meet and marry Art in 2010.

    How did I do it?

    I learned how to navigate the dance of the masculine and feminine energies within myself and within my relationship.

    I learned how to be curious instead of furious.

    I learned how to ask for what I need, in a way that works, so that I feel loved and nurtured in ways I never felt before.

    Now, instead of worrying about relationship problems, my energy is free to do what I love: helping my clients learn how to navigate their relationships so they can Live Their Lives in Love. 

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